Cody Stanfield (2004

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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Cody Stanfield who was born in Indiana on July 06, 2004 and passed away on October 12, 2004 . We will remember him forever. Cody was my dream come true. He was a fraternal twin and the preemie of the two. From the beginning he was a strong little boy with a beautiful defined face and a quiet spirit within him. He was born with the help of a procedure known as Invito Fertilizaton. Because of medical reasons this was my only hope of ever becoming a mother. Thank God after the first procedure I found out that the two eggs that was put in took and I for the first time ever was pregnant with TWINS! Around four or five months I found out that they was going to be a girl and a boy. But even still until I saw their faces I knew the ultrasound could be wrong. I did pick out two names though and its funny but the two I picked just seemed to fit. The pregnacy was good up until my 29wk when I started to go into pre-term labor. I was admitted and stayed until their birth which was at 36wks. Cody was born first weighing 4# 13 0z. What a angel! I couldn't believe this beautiful baby was mine finally. My dream came true. His faint little cry was so precious to hear for the first time.I never would have thought that his precious life would have been so short lived. He was just two months old while in his fathers care that the tragic event took place. Cody was a victim of Shaken Baby Syndrome, but passed away from blunt force trama from being tossed onto our couch after being shook. I still cannot believe that he is gone or that my precious baby boy suffered and died in that manner. I feel violated that my son was taken from me and I will never get to see him grow up with his twin sister, or to see him get married and start a family of his own. I feel betrayed that a man I loved and shared my life with would do this type of crime to his own child and to me and our family. I did not just lose a son. But, a family and a husband. My life will never be the same now. Every holiday, anniversary of my pregnacy events and his birthday will be a constant reminder of the loss of his life. How do I explain to his twin sister what her own father did to her twin brother? And how can I really go on...... I have been in shock ever since that night I saw my son at the hospital. The pictures are hard to look at of him like that. But my family and I took them in hopes that we could help people see what danger shaking a baby can do and to try to help spread awareness in that a life may be saved. If anyone having trouble coping with a crying baby or just being a new parent comes upon this memorial site and gets touched by it or helps them in anyway, then my son's life will not be in vain. Since this happened I have divorced and gotten couseling to help with my loss. His father pled guilty to Battery and got 5 yrs but he only did 1yr and 9mths for it! I can't believe that's all he had to serve for killing our son. Even though Cody was here for such a short time his presence and sweet spirit touched everyone who came in contact with him. His big smile made you grin and when his little fingers would grasp yours...you would melt. At Cody's funeral it was said that his life was....."Born on Earth to Blossom in Heaven". That he is.

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Cody / Renea Settle (Aunt)
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of Cody, and if I could just see him now I would tell him how much his aunt nay-nay loves him!

Precious baby boy and his loving mother / Lora Cromer Lee (Cousin)
Ray Evans is my uncle. His daughter Mary is my first cousin. It breaks my heart to no end that this precious child suffered and lost his life. It tears me apart as a mother to imagine or try to imagine what Mary had to suffer ...

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Justic for Tori / William Carter (Friend)
Cody's father is currently trying to get custody of his sister. For further information goto:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m51c9GlJuIo or search Justice for Tori.

Life Goes On.... / Family Of DAKOTAH And AUSTIN KONETZKA (Online family )
My eyes swelled in tears as I read your testimony of Cody's death of several years ago. My prayers reach out to you and your daughter. I feel your pain as I also witnessed the death of my granddaughter due to abuse from ...

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im soo sorry!!! / Michelle Ficklin (his cousin marlenas friend )
When Marlena had first told me about this it touched me and i had to see the site. I cant believe anyone could be so stupid to even shake a 3 month old baby. He shouldve gotten more time than what he did. They should've took his life away like he did...

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Don't forget me I was here for a reason. / Michelle Gonzalez (praying friend )

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Happy Easter Cody / Annmarie Miller ^i^ Paul Patrick's Mommy (Angel Friend )

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my heart breaks for you / Brenda-mom To Angel Christopher Proctor (passerby)

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And God Said....... / Diane Angel Mom- Katie Cassidy (I care )

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This is in memory of precious Cody! / Marla Cartright (Angel Niki's Mom )

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For Cody's mommy / Sara (angel mommy to Cody Creech )

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In Memory of you... / Timothy (Uncle)

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to cody mom / Selma Flyn (friend)

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open arms / Selma Flynn (friend)

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From one grieving mother to another / Catherine Lyke (none)

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Cody's Photo Album

Cody while in the hospital after being born.

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This memorial website was created by Mary Stanfield on 06/09/2005.
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Memorial Candles

	Jerri Morris lit a candle on 11/06/2009: "Im so sorry for ur loss. Forever in our prayers"

	Lora Lee lit a candle on 11/05/2009: "Mary was my first cousin. I am so sad! My heart just aches! The only comfort is Mary is holding Cody in heaven!"

	Noah And Michelle Panagopoulos lit a candle on 09/28/2009: "Cody, we never knew you, but i'm sure we would have loved U just as we do ur mommy & sissy. U & mom keep watch over Tori"

	AMBER GRAY lit a candle on 09/17/2009: "U WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY PRAYERS!!!"

	Megan&Tim lit a candle on 09/16/2009: "always in our prayers"

	Tracy Norris-Scarlett lit a candle on 09/14/2009: "mary and cody are watching over tori and God will make sure she is taken care of by her family"

	Trisha Neal lit a candle on 09/14/2009: "Cody...please protect your Sister from the monster who did this to you. Watch over her & her family that deserves her."

	Rick Anderson lit a candle on 06/24/2009: "I never knew you Cody, But I'm Sure I would have Loved you As much as I do your Sister. Take care of My Mary."

	Brandy Wilson lit a candle on 04/24/2009: ":( You Will Always Be remembered! I always look at tori and wonder how you two would react to each other! R.I.P"

	Family Of DAKOTAH And AUSTIN KONETZKA lit a candle on 07/20/2008: ""You are remembered in my prayers. May God bless you & grant you strength. Darleen"

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