Life Goes On....  / Family Of DAKOTAH And AUSTIN KONETZKA (Online family )
My eyes swelled in tears as I read your testimony of Cody's death of several years ago.  My prayers reach out to you and your daughter.     I feel your pain as I also witnessed the death of my granddaughter due to abuse from an attending nurse. in 2003.

Your little Cody is with my Cody (Dakotah), Austin and Gianna and probably having the best time of their lives playing in God's Heavenly playground.  My lips smile because I know they are happy but my heart aches because of the emptiness that continues to fill my heart for my (Grand)children and for yours.  

Missing our children, thinking about them never stops.  Getting over them will never happen like some people think should happen in the process of grieving the loss of a child or loved one.  Our memories are the treasures we can cherish each and every day into forever. Your memorial site is a wonderful tribute to your beautiful baby boy.
 
Unfortunately visits from others become less frequent to these memorial sites such as ours.   Time passes and people tend to pay less attention to the losses of others especially when they are not experiencing any similar overwhelming loss.  As hurtful as this avoidance feels...life goes on for the living....but the life for our babies ends with these few pages.   It hardly seems fair.  And so we view our pages regularly hoping to see just a glimpse of someone, somewhere caring to remember our children...if only to light a candle.

But rest assured that even though a fresh candle isn't lit every day in memory of your little Cody...someone....someplace....is always praying for you and your daughter.  Our children in Heaven are greater than the angels in Heaven.  They are now Saints in God's communion of saints.  Our children are praying for us always,  always remembering us and now wait patiently for us to join them one special day.  God only knows when that Special day, time or hour will be. 

In the meantime, Be ready...Be strong.  Love your little girl and hold your little boy close to your heart.  
God bless you.  Darleen Close

im soo sorry!!!  / Michelle Ficklin (his cousin marlenas friend )

When Marlena had first told me about this it touched me and i had to see the site. I cant believe anyone could be so stupid to even shake a 3 month old baby. He shouldve gotten more time than what he did. They should've took his life away like he did so to an innocent new born baby. You are a very strong woman and my heart goes out to you and tori. God bless you and may better days come in the future.

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Don't forget me I was here for a reason.  / Michelle Gonzalez (praying friend )
This dramatic testimony have me in tears but I must tell you are a very brave woman to come forward and tell your little angel story.
He will be your guidinglight ,when you feel a hand caressing your face,it will be him,when you feel you can not go anymore he will give you strenght.He was here for a reason and the reason was for you to be his voice now,to let people know that this can happen in the most normal homes and lives get destroyed and families broken up.Please new parents if your baby is crying andyou feel frustrated,tired,angry,not enough sleep just walk away ,take a few
minutes and then come back in the room .A split second reaction 
will bring a lifetime of regrets!
    Cody I know you are in a better place and looking over your mother and twin sister.Thank-you for the lesson,fly high beautiful angel! Close

Happy Easter Cody  / Annmarie Miller ^i^ Paul Patrick's Mommy (Angel Friend )

Thinking of You and your Mommy

with Love this Easter.

The Family of Paul Patrick Miller

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my heart breaks for you  / Brenda-mom To Angel Christopher Proctor (passerby)
precious mom your son did not die in vain. it is so hard to understand but cody was sent to you for a reason and his job was done more quickly than most. i pray for you and your daughter but please no matter how you feel do not teach your daughter to hate. yes your husband did a horrible thing but your daughter must learn to love in order to keep cody's memory alive. do not let hate over power the memories and love that cody left behind. i will always keep you in my prayers and in my heart. you have a beautiful angel that will be waiting for you when the time is right. in the meantime I know my christoher is watching over him because he loved babies more than anything in the world. Close

And God Said.......  / Diane Angel Mom- Katie Cassidy (I care )
I said, God I hurt
And God said, I know

I said, I cry alot
And God said, That's why I gave you tears

I said, Life is so hard
And God said, That's why I gave you loved ones

I said, But my loved one died!!
And God said, So did mine!!

I said, It's such a great loss!!
And God said, I saw mine nailed to a cross!!

I said, But your loved one lives!!
And God said, So does yours!!

I said, Where is he now??
And God said, My Son is by my side and
Your Son is in my arms!!

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This is in memory of precious Cody!  / Marla Cartright (Angel Niki's Mom )

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For Cody's mommy  / Sara (angel mommy to Cody Creech )

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In Memory of you...  / Timothy (Uncle)
Although he was taken away he's thought of everyday and we are reminded of him each time we see Tori's face and know he's in a better place. Close

to cody mom / Selma Flyn (friend)
i know the filling my son was 21 years old older then cody but the girl bobbo love was with a man bobbo went to the house to get her the man shot bobbo 5 time my baby boy was killed because he was in love i cry all the time bobbo will be there for your cody your friend selma flynn my arm are open for you Close

open arms / Selma Flynn (friend)
to cody mom my baby is with my cody my bobbo had a 1 year old he will be happy to care for your baby selma flynn mamma-flynn@excite.com Close

From one grieving mother to another / Catherine Lyke (none)
                                   I know the extreme pain of burying an infant child. I buried my son 2 years ago, he was 4 months old, he died of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. It haunts me to this day. There's really nothing anyone can tell you to make you feel diferent in your situation, i know i've been there! I just wanna let you know your not alone ( i felt like the only mother on earth that lost her baby). There's many of us out here willing to support and help you in your time of need.Stay strong your son is very happy in HEAVEN! Close

Cody / Linda Evans (granny)
Cody mylove I miss  you but you will never be forgotten I think of you each time I look in Torys eyes and wonder what you would be likeif you would be fighting heror loving on herI just hope that justice will bedone for you I hopw you know that maw and paw will miss you we know you are in heaven and there is no better place but wish we could have had you longerI still feel your sweet kisses you gave me rest in peace sweet heart Close

Cody / Jeffery Settle (cousin)

Not a second goes by that I don't see cody in Tori's eyes.                                                                   

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